I bet you’ve said those words to yourself at least once in your lifetime. Or maybe something like “I’m really ugly” or “I feel frumpy today”. I think most women are familiar with these self defeating phrases we constantly repeat in our heads. Why are we so hard on ourselves? Is it because we are constantly bombarded with images of models and actresses that are a size zero at most? I have to give props to companies like Dove for trying to change that. But I really think the change should begin at home. We have to start getting real with ourselves and put some belief in the power of positive thinking. I’m sure you have all heard of “The Secret” and while I agree with its ideals I’m not saying that’s what you need to do. You know, think you will lose weight and suddenly you will. No, I don’t think that will work. What I mean is you have to stop the negative thoughts and replace them with more loving thoughts. We work hard and do our best to take care of our families, friends, homes and before we know it we don’t have any time for ourselves. This is the reality for most women today. Here’s the good news though, you deserve a pat on the back! Maybe you don’t have time to chop veggies for a healthy lunch but I bet that’s because you are taking care of a child, making a difference in the world or otherwise doing more than should have ever been expected of you. Give yourself a break. Maybe you aren’t a size 0 or even a size 10 for that matter but you are still a good person. Let’s make a pact and agree to drop all of the fad diets? No, actually, let’s drop ALL diets! Okay? Instead, let’s focus on healthy living and doing good things for our bodies. Maybe it will work better to start small. It can be as simple as replacing that afternoon soda with a green tea. The tea has antioxidants and other nutrients that are good for you but still enough caffeine to give you a little boost. I’m sure you know that soda actually depletes nutrients in your body. If you want to include your family maybe you can start with dinner. Replace white pasta, bread, rice, etc. with whole wheat or multi grain. It might taste a little funny at first but trust me; eventually you will love it and wonder why you didn’t do it sooner. Let’s stop worrying about how much we weigh and focus on our accomplishments. If you replace a few bad foods with healthy nutritious foods give yourself a high five! Celebrate the small successes, forget the setbacks and keep moving forward. Negative energy feeds bad moods, stress and a life that is less than you deserve.
I’m going focus this blog on healthy living. I plan on posting about food, work, relationships, exercise and lots of other topics that will help us live healthier lives together.
Please share how you talk yourself out of negative thoughts in the comments.








